My 31st birthday has come and gone. And as I sit here I know I am blessed just to still be alive. I don’t believe I would be here if I had never committed my heart to God. I believe … Continue reading
I thought I’d add some more ‘straight up’ quotes…..since my other two quote posts have been very very popular!
Your self-respect is yours No one can take it from you. You alone can give it away if you choose.
It can get hard when your feeling lonely, alone, and maybe even a bit desperate. You tend to want to just lower your standards by: giving in to sex before marriage, giving in to that “homewrecker”(adultery).
Or simply allowing oneself to be used, abused, and disrespected!
Keep those standards up…No matter Who trys to lower them! At the end it’ll be extremely WORTH IT!
Straight up- A man will treat you like a destination when he chooses to put that ring on your finger! And he will want to treat you in that way if you have given him something to respect.
It’s in a man to respect, protect, and love.
It’s just that so many women have NOT given them anything worth respecting, protecting, and cherishing!
(No, I’m not saying it’s all the woman’s fault. But as a woman myself I can only speak for us.)
*And if your a woman wanting to know some ways to get a man to start respecting you, and protecting you please go check out some of my other posts.*
Don’t ever fall for the lie that you must lower your standards or dignity to appease someone!
You are God’s masterpiece.(Ephesians 2:10)
So No matter how many times you have fallen. You are No accident. You are here for a purpose! Don’t allow a man to treat you as if you are worthless! Remember Who created you. You are His daughter.
What if I told you there was actually someone who would NEVER ever even think about abusing you in any way. A man that didn’t want you just for one thing. A gentleman that absolutely knew your worth and cherished … Continue reading
▶ “Laying in his bed, pretending he’s your husband. Thinking a sex bond will keep you together. Congratulations you’re a pretend wife”.
▶“Don’t have sex with a woman you wouldn’t want your son to marry.”
(Live by example…and show your son a Real Man keeps it “put away”till his wedding night.)
▶“A woman who disdains womanhood trains men to be scum & makes it harder for the good girls to get a guy.”
▶“You Can’t FORCE a person to show you RESPECT, But you can REFUSE to be DISRESPECTED”.
▶“Always hold the door open for a lady. Not because she’s a lady, But because you’re a gentleman”.
▶“Don’t fall in love with someone who says the right things, fall in love with someone who does the right things”.
▶“Someone who is worthy of your love will never put you in a situation where you feel you must sacrifice your dignity, your integrity, or your self-worth to be with them”.
▶ “If you consider yourself a prize that a guy would be lucky(blessed) to have, you won’t choose or tolerate bad men.”
▶If you’re a side chick & you get with that man just remember that side chick position is now open again.
▶ “When a guy wants to shack up, he is blatantly expressing his lack of desire to cherish & honor. He wants one foot out the door.”
▶ If you wonder where all the gentlemen are, they left when all the ladies did.”
▶ “Men don’t respect things they don’t have to earn.”
▶ Don’t date a guy who can’t provide & protect. There’s no point because he won’t be a man.”
▶“Girls give sex to get love. Boys pretend love to get sex”.
▶ “Ladies, You were created for one man. Don’t give out test drives. No ring? No keys.”
▶ Find Someone Who wants to make you a wife….. And not a baby momma.
Remember Ladies…. you were created for something more…. so much more.
And I promise you will not find it in anything else but IN the One who created you for a worthy cause.
Your hands have made me and fashioned me..
Let the One who actually made you and fashioned your very own body hold you today. No matter the choices, no matter the mistakes, no matter the scars..He hears your crys and sees your tears and He is the God of Second, third, fourth…. chances!
He can make you whole again.
He can make you clean again.
Because He wants to.
“Come now, and let us reason together,” Says the Lord ,
“Though your sins are like scarlet, They shall be as white as snow; Though they are red like crimson, They shall be as wool.
●Quit letting him pimp you
▶“Throughout the animal kingdom, males have to prove themselves to females. But that’s not always the case for humans.”.
▶ “When you shack up, you don’t owe each other anything. That’s why guys like it..”
▶ “When a man loves a woman, he gets down on one knee. He doesn’t ask her to shack up & be his unpaid whore.”
▶ “Men ask women to shack up b/c they don’t want to make a commitment, put them on a pedestal, and elevate them to wifehood..”
▶ “If a guy doesn’t respect your values, he doesn’t want you – he wants nooky.”
▶ “Men wouldn’t get away with half of the stuff they do if women didn’t let them.”
▶ “The number one cause of anxiety & depression in kids is divorce.”
▶▶ Sex can be hurtful not only because of infectious diseases but also because it leaves us vulnerable and more likely to cling to people who don’t love us, mourn those who leave us, and not know how to escape those who need us but whom we don’t love.
My personal “quotes” to you:
You are beautiful.
You are worth more than gold.
You are worth loving.
You are worth respecting.