God created sex. He’s the One who created intimacy in the first place that day oh so long ago.. I would say He knows a thing or two what He’s talkin about. Maybe if we truly explored what He says about it..we would be better off. In soul, spirt, and body. You Could say that’s what I did after honestly, personally trying it my way and just getting hurt, broken, and feeling nothing the next day. So when I met my future husband we ended up doing this no sex challenge thang.
Yes, it was different. But something just felt right, something felt pure.
He than became my fiancee.. than he became my husband.
We didn’t have sex (make love) till our wedding night. Yes, I’ve heard the “you gotta try it before you buy it” junk. Oh such a LIE!
My own mom and some relatives of mine even laughed at me. They couldn’t believe I didn’t have sex with my boyfriend/fiancee.
*But you could say we proved them..(Well, God did…since we just did it His way) because we have celebrated our 12 yr anniversary!
I don’t know, but I’ve tried it both ways and God’s way worked for me:)
Maybe because He created it…… 😉
So one reason I started the ‘No Sex Challenge’ here on this blog:) is because There is just so much more involved in sex than some people seem to believe. It breaks my heart. You know, I never knew I could ever have true intimacy…I don’t think I even knew it existed sadly.. but I have found the one my soul loves and desires.:) I call him Alex.
Well actually he found me.;)
True intimacy does exist! But I believe we have to find it in the One who created it in the first place.🙂
And that’s why I write…..to show others that true selfless love and sex/intimacy can exist together.
And the only reason I know is because I’m living it.
If you have a No Sex Challenge story, I would love to hear about it. Please comment below or send me the link or email me: firstname.lastname@example.org
**Or if you would like to start your own “no sex challenge story” please click here! And let the fun begin!!!!
((And if you’d like to read about our FIRST kiss…check it out HERE!))