Porn Porn Everywhere

It’s everywhere!
But that’s only part of the problem

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The biggest issue is that it is going into our minds. Seeping in. Making it’s home in our very own hearts!

This is scary people.
Very VERY FRIGHTENING!!

It is what a lot of young boys are growing up on.
Kids hearts and minds are innocent, tender, trusting and need to be safeguarded from the negative influences of increasingly violent and sexualized media!

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Pornography teaches sex without love, intimacy, tender touch, responsibility, and commitment.”!!
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Pornography is more then a small sexual “secret”. Believe me I’ve read enough, I’ve seen enough and I have felt enough to KNOW it is an extremely wicked problem!

It may have started as a “fun” guilty pleasure but it has now (thanks to the internet) grown into a massive and festering addiction.

Pornography should be banned as SUPER-ADDICTIVE and DANGEROUS drug/behaviour much like Heroin, Crack, Crystal Meth!:
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The research is there.
The findings are true.
Porn is as addictive as drugs!
Addicts crave it. Not because they necessarily like it.
Chances are they don’t even want to give in and watch it. But the cravings are there and they only continue to get BIGGER every time the addict gives in and bites!

It really is a very sad epidemic.
If you dont consider yourself a porn/sex addict then you might deny these facts.
You might only consider yourself “a moderate user”. But as any drug addict will testify. The cravings will grow undoubtedly.

And with porn there is NO EXCEPTION!
Just ask the man that can tell you that it all began when he just started with “normal” porn videos and/or images. But eventually his body needed more. His “fun” ended with an arrest of child pornography.
But you say that won’t happen to you. How can you be sure?
Are you willing to take that risk?

Is porn really that good that you would sacrifice everything for it?
Not only do you lose your purity and if you’re a man your manhood. But if that’s not enough your family, your wife, your children, and your respect is also all on the line!
So tell me is it truly worth it?

I’m sure the husband that has already lost it ALL would tell you it’s not!
I’m sure the wife that has felt the agony and excruciating heartbreak because of it would tell you it’s not!
And I’m sure the children that have been neglected and pushed to the side all because of their dad’s porn/sexual addiction/problem would cry out it’s not!

I pretty sure we all have heard the stories how an addiction started with a few beers. A couple cigarettes. A line of coke. No addict intended to become a full blown out addict.

No human being with a heart intends to neglect, abuse, push away, scar, or destroy the very ones they love and who love them.

Pornography leads to affairs. (Because it is an affair)!
Pornography can lead to rape. Pornography leads people into hellish fetishes that they would have never ever thought about in the first place without porn.

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Pornography IS NOT NORMAL.
How can humans being degraded, abused and used be normal??

You watch that porn video and it starts off feeling good but believe me; not too far away there is a man or woman who is alone in his/her room pounding the floor, asking God to take away this vicious addiction! And he/she would tell you don’t do it! Don’t even begin with that one video! Don’t even think about it.

I as a parent would honestly advise my children to not even begin messing around with any drug.
So the same goes with porn.
It is a drug!
And I pray that one day it will be illegal and completely banned.
The repercussions are huge!

I am very positive that many reading could easily admit to falling into the trap of pornography.
I am very positive that many reading could admit that pronography did indeed lead them to do other things they truly did not even want to do.

Sex was NEVER meant to be dirty.
Sex is more then an act.
It’s something so deep.
Something so personal and private but not because it’s shameful. But because it’s meant to be between two people who sacrificially love each other with no doubt, no reserve.
And when you love somebody so sacrificially, & so immensely you do not want to share that personal and private bond with nobody!! No, not a picture, not a video, no peeking! That bond, that personal time… NO ONE should be able to sneak upon, to peek upon, or to watch it!

Sex is an intertwining of a husband and wife’s soul. They are one. And God, yes God looks upon that as good.

Your soul is costly woman.
You can not just give it away to any man. I mean you could but why? When your soul has so much more meaning and purpose! Your soul longs to be one with another soul. But you can in no way give yourself(your soul) away repeatedly to guy after guy with NO consequences.
You hurt yourself painfully more then you know when you do. It’s almost like you burn away at your own heart. Your heart over time becomes hardened and numb.

That is what I believe happens to all those precious girls in those porn videos. At the end they lose out.
Oh what many of them would give just to gain back their innocence.

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And they have the porn/sex addict to thank for a lot of their pain.
For demand fuels the porn industry.
Kill the demand. Kill the porn industry.
Not that easy. I know. But it’s a start.

There may be a lot we can’t do.
But I know there is way more we CAN do! Even if it’s a small change.

So come on! Lets fight this demon!
I believe in you.

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19 thoughts on “Porn Porn Everywhere

  1. Awesome post! You are so right. Porn is so destructive. Sex trafficking and the porn industry are closely linked and many lives are being destroyed by what many men who consider it “harmless” are doing. I pray that God will intervene to rescue those trapped in it and open the eyes of those who engage in pornography.

  2. You noted SO many important key things in this post SOI. I couldn’t help but think of a very, very sad story that recently kept me awake through the night of a friend of one of our couple-friends. A male-worship leader at a well known church. He literally died (right in front of his computer)– reason: hard core porn. The family had to break the door only for his wife and close friends to find him naked. dead. right in front of his computer with porn running. yes. the unthinkable. And as our friends who knew him very well put it: “What a way to meet your maker”.

    What you’re writing about here is life and death! I applaud you for taking on these issues and putting them on the table where they belong. In the church AND outside the church. This problem is plaguing the souls of too many.

    May God continue to give you courage, His covering, as well as His much needed grace as you help our young (and older people) find their way out of this web.

    I really liked this line as well: Pornography teaches sex without love, intimacy, tender touch, responsibility, and commitment.

    Love you lots!
    Marlene

  3. As a man I have been challenged by your post. There needs to be more awareness about porn and its destructiveness! As the church we need to be real and truthful with ourselves and realise the battle is real. Porn is a destroyer! I was addicted to porn and only now am I beginning to get out. I am accountable to some other men and they are walking with me. It is hard but at the same time it’s worth it. Porn mocks everything I am and stand for as a man and as a servant of God! Thank you for writing this and thank you for answering the call on your life!

    (Could I please use some of your pics?) 😄

    It’s great to meet you. God bless you indeed……!

    Rolain

    • Very good to hear that you have been set free!! I wish more people would realize how much of a REAL drug pornography is! It is NOT just a “nice little toy” that you can play around with and put away whenever you want. YEAH RIGHT! It may start that way but it soon becomes a festering full grown monster!!
      That DEMANDS your time and affection! You become it’s slave and it becomes your master!
      Keep up the FIGHT! Don’t ever give up! The reward (Jesus) is worth it!!

      Thank you for reading! Please share.

      And yes you can share the pics.

      • I have been trying to figure out why woman feel cheated when a husband or boyfriend looks at porn. There must be something deeper than the husband lusting over another woman! Any insights into that you could share?

      • Pornography goes against everything that God designed sex to be.
        Pornography not only violates a marriage because as the Bible calls it..it is adultery committed in the heart. But even if a couple are not christians a wife still may feel betrayed because a husband’s devotion should only be for his wife. His marriage vows should have been taken seriously. A man cannot serve two masters! Marriage sex or porn? You cannot have both. You can only give yourself fully to one.(That is my wholehearted belief) With porn comes masturbation. And masturbation is another sad story that depletes intimacy in marriage. I believe a husband(or any person) that continues to (watch)devour pornography is pretty much telling God that His design of sex is not enough! Porn tells you that you can be your own god. Pornography is a world WITHOUT God. A world that has rejected God’s love.
        So how could any woman/wife accept her husband’s/man’s affair with porn?

      • Wow……that is intense. I am single and I have always wondered about the dangers of porn in marriage and you have have laid it out very clearly!!!! I want to honor my future wife and I want her to realise she is the only one who has my heart….!!! Your reply has made so much sense and is not to be taken lightly! I can’t afford to slack when it comes to this. I need to always be on my guard!!! Thank you for your sobering words and insight…..Gid bless you!

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