“If we don’t feel worthy how can we expect someone else to feel we are worth an effort”?
I believe men were made to “work”, and they truly, deeply want to and love to value us as women..so when they have to work for something, I believe it becomes that much more valuable to them. But IF we as girls/women ALLOW them to “get us” way too easily..in other words NOT truly WORK AT IT, than why do you think they “hit it and quit it”??
IF YOU GIVE THEM NOTHING TO RESPECT AND WORK FOR….guess what? THEY WON’T!!
Sadly, That Simple.
I’m sick and tired of hearing about young, precious girls(mostly teens) becoming pregnant! But that’s not even the saddest part. The fact that most of em’ ACTUALLY believed the boy really loved them/cared for them or ready for this one…was going to marry them??!!!
And I’m sick and tired of hearing about girls/women “giving it up” and sleeping around hoping that it’ll result in them finding Mr. Right!??
*Can I please quote a young twenty-three year old guy.(These are his words, so please don’t get mad at me):
“I DON’T KNOW OF ANY GIRLS WHO DON’T ACT INSECURE. THEY ARE ALL UP ON GUYS, AND THEY SLEEP WITH ANYBODY. THEY LOOK HOT, BUT EVERYBODY SAYS STUFF ABOUT THEM LATER. THERE AREN’T ANY GIRLS OUT THERE WHO YOU WOULD WANT TO MARRY AND BE YOUR KID’S MOM. SAD.”
Personally it sounds to me he’s looking in all the wrong places. If you want to buy flowers do you head to a car-lot? The only thing you’ll find there is cars. You can’t EXPECT to find flowers there!
So may I say if you are looking for a lady/man to marry and be the father/mother of your children…be careful where you are searching!
Ladies, If we show them we value and respect ourselves for example by telling them No sir!!..Sex don’t come easy ’round here. Than the ‘REAL’ men will usually jump mountains, swim shark infested waters just to RISE to our standard’s! And in the midst of all that…we find love..
But yes we are human and have hormones of course, and so it doesn’t come easy but just PLEASE remember men will always work for what they cherish, adore, value and respect.
Give them something to cherish, adore, value and respect….(something to work for) and the real men will!
And all the others well …..you’ll know you were too expensive and valuable for them! 🙂